Our chickens graced us with their first egg, which made us realize that if we don’t want to go on a daily Easter egg hunt, we needed a way to kindly suggest where they might like to deposit. Enter these wooden eggs (affiliate link).
Much like real eggs, they are oval and brown and nestled into the nesting box of our chicken coop, in the hopes of encouraging their factual counterparts to join them. To date, results are mixed. The ersatz eggs are shuffled around by chicken feet and sometimes there’s a genuine article in their midst.
Other times, I find eggs at the top of the chicken exit ramp, in the middle of the coop–not helpful–or next to the food dish. I mean, I get it, who wouldn’t want to eat and lay at the same time?
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Settling Into the School Routine
Never have I ever been so grateful for the simplicity and beauty of a school routine. Our kids are both back to in-person learning and we are all of us thrilled. Ecstatic. They love it, we love it and the chickens appreciate the reduction in their kid-facilitated snuggling regime.
Preschool for Littlewoods costs $20 a day, a fee we happily pay. Vermont provides 10 hours per week of free pre-k education to all children ages 3 to 5 and we pay for the additional hours so that her day aligns with Kidwoods’ school day.
Kidwoods joined the Kindergarten soccer “team” and gets out on the field to kick and run with unbridled glee. The participation fee was $48, I borrowed a pair of cleats from a friend and found these shin guards for $4.88 (affiliate link).
Kidwoods’ swim lessons this summer were our first foray into kid activities and so far, I’m glad we waited until age five. At five, she’s excited, ready to participate and not (too) shy about bounding off to join the group. We’ll hold off on signing Littlewoods (age 3) up for extracurriculars until she’s five as well.
So far, it feels like one activity at a time is a good pace for us since I don’t want the kids (or myself) to be over-scheduled and hectic. We need time to play in the woods and read by the woodstove! Not to mention snuggle chickens…
Wife + Husband + Kids at School = Weekday Dates
Speaking of the fabulous school routine, now that Mr. FW’s early retired–and my job remains supremely flexible–we’ve started going on a weekly lunch date!
We drop the girls off at school, drive to a gorgeous spot in our gorgeous state, enjoy lunch, a coffee, a stroll and then drive back to pick them up from school in the afternoon. I love that we don’t have to hire a babysitter or make reservations or pay dinner prices or stay up past our 8:30pm bedtime!
The only hitch is that there aren’t all that many places open for lunch on weekdays, but this is a hardship we are overcoming ;).
I’ve had the dream of weekday dates since our kids were born and it feels amazing to make it happen. This is one of those examples of mindful, values-based spending.
My husband and I like spending time together, it is important for us to do so without our children, and we like good food and beer. Winning all around. This is why you’ll see line items for restaurants and coffee shops this month!
Another Liz Haircut: The Pixie Continues
I’ve decided to keep my pixie cut! I don’t think I’ll ever go long again, I love it so much. It’s beyond easy to style, it takes no time, it always looks nice and it’s not flying in my face when I’m doing yoga/hiking/cleaning out the chicken coop/working in the garden.
I’ve also decided to continue paying my local stylist to cut it for me because she does an awesome job and I want to support her work.
One of my BFFs and I have established the tradition of going to get our hair cut together and then out to lunch! She takes half a day off work, I take half a day off life, we carpool to town and we have a fabulous time.
We’ve decided to go four times a year, roughly every three months, which feels reasonable from a cost and hair maintence perspective.
Personal Capital: How We Organize Our Expen$e$
I use a free online service called Personal Capital to keep track of our money: our spending, our net worth, our investments, our retirement–everything.
Tracking expenses is one of the best–and easiest–ways to get a handle on your finances. You absolutely, positively cannot make informed decisions about your money if you don’t know how you’re spending it or how much you have. If you’d like to know more about how Personal Capital works, check out my full write-up.
Without a holistic picture of how much you spend every month, there’s no way to set savings, debt repayment, or investment goals. It’s a must, folks. Personal Capital (which is free to use) is a great way for me to systematize our financial overviews since it links all of our accounts together and provides a comprehensive picture of our net worth.
If you’re not tracking your expenses in an organized fashion, you might consider trying Personal Capital. Here’s a more detailed explanation of how I use Personal Capital (note: these Personal Capital links are affiliate links).
Credits Cards: How We Buy Everything
We buy everything we can with credit cards because:
It’s easier to track expenses. No guesswork over where a random $20 bill went; it all shows up in our monthly expense report from Personal Capital. I also think I spend less money because I KNOW I’m going to see every expense listed at the end of each month.
- We get rewards. Credit card rewards are a simple way to get something for nothing. Through the cards we use, we get cash back as well as hotel and airline points just for buying stuff we were going to buy anyway.
- We build our credit. Since we don’t have any debt, having several credit cards open for many years helps our credit scores. It’s a dirty myth that carrying a balance on your credit card helps your credit score–IT DOES NOT. Paying your cards off IN FULL every month and keeping them open for many years does help your score.
For more on my credit card strategy, check out:
- The Easiest $486 I’ve Ever Made: How To Use Cash Back Credit Cards To Your Advantage
- The Best Credit Cards (and Credit Card Rewards)!
- The Frugalwoods Guide to a Simple, Yet Rewarding, Credit Card Experience
If you want a simple cash back credit card, here are some good options that don’t have annual fees:
1) Blue Cash Everyday® Card from American Express offers a hierarchy of cash back percentages:
- 3% Cash Back at U.S. supermarkets (on up to $6,000 per year in purchases, then 1%)
- 2% Cash Back at U.S. gas stations and at select U.S. department stores
- 1% Cash Back on other purchases
- Earn a $200 statement credit if you spend $2,000 within the first 6 months of card membership
- Unlimited 1.5% cash back on all purchases
- Earn $200 if you spend $500 or more in purchases within the first three months of card membership
- 3% cash back on dining, entertainment, popular streaming services and grocery stores.
- 1% cash back on all other purchases.
- Plus, earn 8% cash back on tickets at Vivid Seats through January 2023.
- Get $200 if you spend $500 on purchases within the first three months from account opening.
- 5% cash back on grocery store purchases (not including Target or Walmart) on up to $12,000 spent in the first year.
- 5% cash back on Chase travel purchased through Ultimate Rewards.
- 3% cash back on dining and drugstores.
- 1.5% cash back on all other purchases.
- No minimum to redeem for cash back, rewards do not expire as long as your account is open.
- Earn $200 if you spend $500 in your first 3 months from account opening.
If you’re interested in travel rewards, a lot of people love the Chase Sapphire Preferred. You can earn 60,000 bonus points after you spend $4,000 on purchases in the first 3 months from account opening. That’s $750 when you redeem through Chase Ultimate Rewards.
The best way to find a credit card that’ll work for you is to search for it yourself; I have a guide to help you do just that: The Best Credit Cards (and Credit Card Rewards)!
Huge caveat to credit card usage: you MUST pay your credit card bills in full every single month, with no exceptions. If you’re concerned about your ability to do this, or think using credit cards might prompt you to spend more, stick with a debit card or cash. But if you have no problem paying that bill in full every month? I recommend you credit card away, my friend! (note: the credit card links are affiliate links).
Cash Back Earned This Month: $36.14
The silver lining to our spending is our cash back credit card. We earn 2% cash back on every purchase made with our Fidelity Rewards Visa and this month, we spent $1,807.12 on that card, which netted us $36.14.
Not a lot of money perhaps, but it’s money we earned for buying stuff we were going to buy anyway! This is why I love cash back credit card rewards–they’re the simplest way to earn something for nothing.
To see how this adds up over the course of a year, check out this post: The Easiest $486 I’ve Ever Made: How To Use Cash Back Credit Cards To Your Advantage.
Where’s Your Money?
Another easy way to optimize your money is to use a high-interest savings account. With these accounts, interest works in your favor as opposed to the interest rates on debt, which work against you. Having money in a no or low interest savings account is a waste of resources–your money is just sitting there doing nothing. Don’t let your money be lazy! Make it work for you! And now, enjoy some explanatory math:
Let’s say you have $5,000 in a savings account that earns 0% interest. In a year’s time, your $5,000 will still be… $5,000.
Let’s say you instead put that $5,000 into an American Express Personal Savings account that–as of this writing–earns 0.40% in interest. In one year, your $5,000 will have increased to $5,020. That means you earned $20 just by having your money in a high-interest account.
And you didn’t have to do anything! I’m a big fan of earning money while doing nothing. I mean, is anybody not a fan of that? Apparently so, because anyone who uses a low or no interest savings account is NOT making money while doing nothing. Don’t be that person.
Be the person who earns money while sleeping. More about high-interest savings accounts, as well as the ones I recommend, here: The Best High Interest Rate Online Savings Accounts.
Yes, We Only Paid $28.42 for Cell Phone Service (for two phones)
Our cell phone service line item is not a typ0 (although that certainly is). We really and truly only paid $28.42 for both of our phones (that’s $14.21 per person for those of you into division). How is such trickery possible?!? We use the MVNO Ting (affiliate link).
What’s an MVNO? Glad you asked because I was going to tell you anyway: It’s a cell phone service re-seller.
MVNOs are the TJ Maxx of the cell phone service world–it’s the same service, but A LOT cheaper. If you’re not using an MVNO, switching to one is an easy, slam-dunk, do-it-right-away way to save money every single month of every single year forever and ever amen. More here: How to Save Money on Your Cell Phone Bill with an MVNO: I Pay $12 a Month*
*the amount we pay fluctuates every month because it’s calibrated to what we use. Imagine that! We only pay for what we use! Will wonders ever cease.
Expense Report FAQs
- Want to know how we manage the rest of our money? Check out How We Manage Our Money: Behind The Scenes of The Frugalwoods Family Accounts
Don’t you have a rental property? Yes! We own a rental property (also known as our first home) in Cambridge, MA, which I discuss here.
- Why do I share our expenses? To give you a sense of how we spend our money in a values-based manner. Your spending will differ from ours and there’s no “one right way” to spend and no “perfect” budget.
- Are we the most frugal frugal people on earth? Absolutely not! My hope is that by being transparent about our spending, you might gain insights into your own spending and be inspired to take proactive control of your money.
- Wondering where to start with managing your money? Take my free, 31-day Uber Frugal Month Challenge. If you’re interested in other things I love, check out Frugalwoods Recommends.
- Why don’t you buy everything locally? We do our best to support our local community and buy as much of our food as possible directly from our farmer neighbors. Our town doesn’t have any stores, so we rely on online ordering and big box stores for necessities. The closest stores are 45 minutes away and Mr. FW goes once a month to stock up on what we can’t get from our neighbors or online.
But Mrs. Frugalwoods, Don’t You Pay For X, Y, Or Even Z???
Wondering about common expenses you don’t see listed below?
- We don’t have a mortgage because we paid it off (details here).
We pay bills in full the month we receive them. That’s why you won’t see monthly payments for things like car insurance or property tax. These expenses show up as the full annual (or bi-annual, etc) amount in the month we pay them.
- We don’t have any debt and we paid cash for our cars.
- Our health insurance is paid for by Mr. FW’s employer (as noted in this post, this expires at the end of 2021. I’ll write a post about our ACA coverage research soon!)
- Here’s how we make charitable contributions: How We Donate To Charities Like Billionaires and also How We Make Meaningful And Tax Efficient Charitable Donations.
- Here’s an overview of how we save for our kids’ higher education: How We Use 529 Plans To Save For College
- We live on 66 acres in rural Vermont, so our utilities and household expenses are different from traditional urban and suburban homes:
- We don’t pay for water, sewer, trash, or heating/cooling because we have a well, a septic system, our town doesn’t provide trash pick-up (we take it to a transfer station once a week in bags we purchase from our town), we heat our home with wood we harvest ourselves from our land, and we don’t have central air conditioning (we use window units during the hottest parts of the summer).
- There are, of course, costs associated with maintaining these systems (such as having our septic system pumped and inspected) and those expenses show up in the months we pay them.
- We have solar panels, which account for our low electricity bill.
- For more on our rural lifestyle, check out my series This Month On The Homestead as well as City vs. Country: Which Is Cheaper? The Ultimate Cost Of Living Showdown
If you’re wondering about anything else, feel free to ask in the comments section!
Alright you frugal money voyeurs, feast your eyes on every dollar we spent in September:
|Preschool||$440.00||$20 per day for Littlewoods’ preschool.|
|Gas for cars||$350.84||You can tell we’ve been traversing the state on our weekday dates!|
|Restaurants||$187.04||Weekly weekday dates!|
|Household Supplies||$162.02||All the riveting accoutrements of life, including the aforementioned $4.88 shin guards, laundry detergent, soap, craft/art supplies, toothpaste, etc, etc and so forth (affiliate link).|
|Beer, wine and liquor||$99.23|
|Haircut for Liz||$82.80|
|Soccer for Kidwoods||$48.00||Participation fee|
|Book||$37.63||The Vermont Almanac|
|Farm supplies||$29.72||Cider yeast (for our homemade apple cider) and an outdoor water dish for the chickens|
|Utilities: Electricity||$29.07||We have solar (which I detail here); this is our monthly base price for remaining grid tied.|
|Cell phone service for two phones||$28.42||This is so cheap because we use an MVNO called Ting (affiliate link).
MVNOs resell wireless service at discounted rates (but it’s the same service). MVNOs are the TJ Maxx of cell phone service.
If you’re not using an MVNO, check out this post to see if you can make the switch. The savings are tremendous.
|Coffee Shops||$26.98||Weekly weekday dates!|
|Replacement Tire for Prius||$20.00||The Prius got a tire puncture that neither Mr. FW nor our mechanic could patch.|
|Leveler Feet||$18.37||Leveler Feet for table saw out-feed table build (affiliate link).|
|Wooden Eggs||$12.71||Wooden eggs for chicken instructional purposes (affiliate link).|
|Parking Meter||$3.35||For parking while on a weekly weekday date|
How was your September?
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